Every time I got home from work, my daughter would ask, “Did you bring me anything?” The only thing I could think of to get her was a wooden sword. It never even crossed my mind that she might want a doll or a dress.
Story 5
After separating from my wife in 1994, I decided not to date because I didn’t want anything to take time away from my sons. Now they’re grown, but I’ve been single for so long that I doubt I’ll ever meet anyone. Dating has changed so much — I think I’m just meant to stay single.
Story 6
Whenever I attend parent-teacher meetings with my ex-wife, the teachers almost always direct their comments and questions to her. It feels unintentionally disrespectful — like I’m invisible.
Story 7
I’ve had women tell me I’ll never understand how hard it is to be a single mom. But being a single dad comes with its own set of challenges, too.
Story 8
Doing my daughter’s hair is a daily struggle. I’ve asked female friends, my hairdresser, and even consulted the internet, but no matter what I do, it always looks like she’s been through a windstorm. Since her mom isn’t around, she’s with me full-time.
I even took her to my hairdresser, who made it look beautiful. I bought all the same products and took notes. But within two days, it was back to being a mess. At first, I worried people would judge me, but now I know I’m doing my best, and I’m a great dad. © maxd / Reddit
Story 9
I once volunteered to help with my daughter’s school Christmas party. The mom in charge asked me repeatedly if I could handle bringing a specific drink. She even asked a family member if I’d manage it.
For context, my daughter was in 5th grade and I’d been a single dad with full custody of both my kids for six years. I reassured her I could handle bringing a drink — it wasn’t rocket science.
Story 10
I’m genuinely happy being on my own. But people assume I’m miserable because my ex is marrying my former best friend. The truth is, I’m fine. I wish them well and don’t hold any hard feelings.
Story 11
One of the hardest parts of being a single dad? Most men’s bathrooms don’t have baby changing tables. And people always assume I’m married, which gets really annoying after a while.